Shake it off and step up again!

Remember this old, (but tried and true) lesson? I shared it back in the olden days of 2019!

     A parable is told of a farmer who owned an old mule. The mule fell into the farmer’s well. The farmer heard the mule braying or whatever mules do when they fall into wells. After carefully assessing the situation, the farmer sympathized with the mule, but decided that neither the mule nor the well was worth the trouble of saving.

     Instead he called his neighbors together and told them what happened and enlisted them to help haul dirt to bury the old mule in the well and put him out of his misery.

     Initially, the old mule was hysterical!! But as the farmer and his neighbors continued shoveling and the dirt hit his back a thought struck him. It suddenly dawned on him that every time a shovel load of dirt landed on his back HE SHOULD SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP! This he did, blow after blow.

     Shake it off and step up, shake it off and step up, shake it off and step up, he repeated to encourage himself. No matter how painful the blows, or distressing the situation seemed, the old mule fought panic and just kept right on SHAKING IT OFF AND STEPPING UP!

You’re right! It wasn’t long before the old mule, battered and exhausted, stepped triumphantly over the wall of that well!

There’s a lesson in this for all of us!

     What seemed like it would bury him, actually blessed him all because of the manner in which he handled his adversity. THAT’S LIFE! If we face our problems and respond to them positively, and refuse to give in to panic, bitterness, or self-pity, the adversities that come along to bury us usually have within them the potential to benefit and bless us!

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