Posts by Pat:
Spring Forward or Bloom Where You’re Planted?
We all have two choices as we move our clocks forward an hour for Daylight Saving Day.
Although the image of cutting off a foot at the top of the blanket and sewing it on the bottom of the blanket doesn’t really make much sense, we still do it!
Choice One: Spring Forward Today!
And though moving the clock ahead an hour smacks of messing with the time continuum, we can certainly use it as a mechanism to jump start our individual spring.
Any day can be our new start! So what have you been thinking of doing, but haven’t gotten around to yet? As you know, any day can be your January 1.
So today is as good as any to
- make that decision,
- take that action, and
- move ahead.
Choice Two: Bloom Where You Are Planted!
Now this one can be really fun if you don’t want to make a drastic change, but just be effective and beautiful where you are.
And you could even become a guerilla gardener or pothole gardener and create something that’s fun and special!
So…
- whatever your choice,
- have a happy Daylight Saving Day,
- whether or not it makes any sense!
After all, it doesn’t have to be either/or.
It could be both/and!
What resonates with you?
You’re Not Too Busy
One of the biggest lies we tell ourselves and others is that we are “too busy.” It seems to be an automatic default, an excuse for when we don’t want to do something (or haven’t done it!) Too busy? You’re not. I’m not. We’re not. We always seem to find time for what we really […]
Be Careful What You Wish For!
I did it again, and it’s not like I didn’t know better! Yep, this time I was looking at my carefully planned schedule with each day carefully scheduled so that no day would be an overload. I realized that what I really wanted was a schedule that would allow me to not get up in the morning […]
Action Trumps Thought
We are always talking about what we want, what we intend. But these are dreams and wishes and are of little value in changing our mood or our world. We are not what we think, or what we say, or how we feel. We are what we do. The value we bring to our lives […]
Do you have “Triskaidekaphobia?”
Triskaidekaphobia is fear of the number 13 and avoiding using it. Think hotels with no 13th floor! Who knew that this fear appears to be rooted in pre-Christian traditions, when the Norse god Loki invited himself to the Banquet of Valhalla, becoming the 13th guest. His mischief caused the death of Baldr, a favorite of the […]
How to Avoid Stress: Live With Margin
Like it or not, stress is probably here to stay. And a lot of stress can reduce the quality of our life as well as the quality of our relationships. That’s why it’s important that we learn how to avoid excessive stress. I believe that one key to accomplishing this is to live with margin. Margin is the […]
Are You Creatively Maladjusted?
This week we celebrated Martin Luther King Jr. Day for many good reasons, but one thing that stands out for me is his coining of a new phrase: creatively maladjusted. And in a sermon on this topic Martin Luther King Jr explicitly said: Everybody passionately seeks to be well-adjusted…but there are some things in our world to which men […]
The Upside of Irritation
Admit it! At times, we all can be a bit like The Princess and the Pea. Life can offer us so much goodness, but all we sometimes do is get irritated by the few small things that don’t go smoothly. We’ve all been there. We find ourselves so bothered by some experience in our day: […]
Ants and Bees, a Metaphor
Life lessons are everywhere! Let’s look at Ants and Bees as metaphors for our lives. We can learn a lot from watching ants and bees living in community and working for the greater good. More than any other species, ants and bees function as parts of a whole. They cannot and do not survive as individuals; […]
Persistent Starting
Have you ever felt overwhelmed while trying to achieve a goal? I have, and I would guess you have too. That’s why it’s important that you have a good strategy! And one good strategy I have found is “persistent starting.” As Neil Fiore in his book The Now Habit states: “…essentially, all large tasks are […]








