What we really want!
Here is a shortcut to getting what we really want. (just an example from a former Realtor’s perspective!)

What did the mythical client want? Asked about their dream home, they described it. “It’s on a hill, surrounded by tall trees, with a panoramic view.”
What feeling does the house give you? “Security.”
And the hill? “It would show me perspective.”
And the trees? “Trees represent growth.”
And the panoramic view? “It attunes me to expansiveness.”
So…they really were looking for security, perspective, growth, and expansiveness. And…if they could feel all those experiences, would they really need the house?
Because we are spiritual beings at our core, it is the feeling of a particular experience that we crave. If we got the house but not the feelings we sought, we would still be unsatisfied. If we got the feelings, no matter whether the house came or not, we would be deeply satisified.
So as we go into this new year, this new potential, let’s go in with an improved perspective and choose to learn this lesson…
LESSON? To be aware of the experience we seek and cultivate, right where we are now. The feelings are what we really want the experience of this new year, month, week, day, moment to give us.
Maybe peace, love, safety, wisdom, joy, beauty, creativity..?
- What do you want to be and have?
- What do you really want to be and have?
- What do you really, really want to be and have?

Let’s all go for the feelings that our experiences in 2026 can bring us. I truly believe we will be happier with them as our focus!