Posts by Pat:
a fable about peace…
There is a fable about a king who wanted to experience peace. As he wanted to know what peace looked like, he commissioned two artists to create the perfect picture of peace.

The first artist created a beautiful mountain landscape in which gorgeous trees towered over a lake. The lake’s waters were so calm, tranquil and serene that they served as a mirror, perfectly reflecting the mountains.
Everyone looking at it said it was “the perfect picture of peace”.

The second artist created a painting of a raging waterfall that cascaded down a rocky precipice. The water pounded so hard on the rocks that a mist rose from it and trickled upward. The tone of the painting was angry and violent.
Looking more closely, people could focus on the tree with a gnarled branch at the side of the waterfall. On that branch was a tiny bird in a nest that was singing a beautiful song, even though it was within inches of the torrential waterfall.
The people were in awe and said, “Yes! That is the perfect picture of peace.”
So…
Which painting truly was the perfect picture of peace?
I believe that they both were. But more importantly, I believe that true peace is being able to go through the storms without becoming part of them, just as the singing bird was.
Is peace merely the absence of fighting, or is it tranquility despite any conflict? Is happiness the absence of suffering, or is it contentment despite the imperfections?

We choose whether to worry or not. If we take a step back, we can see that all of our suffering is self-inflicted because we assign meaning to everything.
With all the turmoil in the world these days, we can choose what peace really looks like to us and then we can emulate it in our lives.
Ready to sing your song?!
I’m ready to lighten up! Are you? I’d love to hear any funnies that you’d like to share. Just leave a comment below the post! I’m at that age where my mind still thinks I’m 29, my humor suggests that I’m 12, while my body mostly keeps asking if I’m sure I’m not dead yet. […]
Monkeys and golf balls…
Do you know this modern day parable? Author Gregory Knox Jones tells the story of a golf course built by the British in India. There was a unique obstacle, though, that caused some problems. For as golfers began to play, the monkeys in the surrounding jungles joined in the fun. They would pick up the […]
Being like water isn’t easy
“Nothing is weaker than water. But when it attacks something hard or resistant, then nothing withstands it, and nothing will alter its way.” from the Tao Te Ching Water is so fine that it’s impossible to grasp a handful of it. We can strike it, yet it doesn’t suffer hurt; stab it, and it is […]
Playing with words…
There’s too much going on! Too much stress! It’s time to play! And since I was an English teacher in a previous lifetime, I choose to play with WORDS. And today I choose “anagrams”. What’s an anagram? It’s a word or phrase formed by rearranging the letters in another word or phrase. It’s important to […]
Average or Awesome?
“Average” wasn’t pitched to us in our high school guidance counselor’s office. Do you remember feeling and believing that you could do absolutely anything you set your mind to do? Oh, the places we’d go! We know that “average” in our culture often has a negative connotation. Do we perhaps keep striving to do more […]
What’s life to you?
If you were given a chance to choose your favorite life metaphor, what would it be? Do you agree with Forrest Gump’s mother that life is “a box of chocolates” because “you never know what you’re going to get”? Or do you prefer the phrase from the 1930’s tune that “life is just a bowl […]
Feeling limited?
Blind Paralympian Verity Smith is amazing! She was told at the age of eight that due to a rare genetic disorder, she would soon lose her sight. Having competed on horseback since she was five, her response was unexpected. “It’s okay, my horse can see for me.” In the years since losing her sight, Verity […]
If you were the fifth monk?
One of my favorite zen stories is ‘The Four Monks”… Four monks decided to meditate silently for two weeks. They lit a candle and began. By nightfall on the first day, the candle went out. The first monk said: “Oh, no! The candle is out.” The second monk said: “We’re not supposed to talk!” The […]
Has it been a while?
These last 6 months or so have left many of us discombobulated!* And I’m sure that I’m not the only one for whom “it’s been a while!” *isn’t this a funny word for being upset or confused? It’s been a while… since I cleaned out my truck and got the outside washed, but I did […]